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      <title>Daily notes for 2023-03-22</title>
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      <description>Succumbing to org-roam, the pleasures of a straight razor competently wielded, Decline of Western Civilization.</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3 id="succumbing-to-org-roam">Succumbing to org-roam</h3>
<p>Well, it took less than 12 hours to go from &ldquo;I&rsquo;m not going to even touch that&rdquo; to &ldquo;huh, I wonder if it&rsquo;s cool?&rdquo;</p>
<p>Yes, <a href="https://www.orgroam.com">org-roam</a> is cool. It&rsquo;s a Zettelkasten implementation built atop org-mode. To make it work in Doom Emacs you just add it to the org-mode line in Doom&rsquo;s <code>init.el</code>:</p>






<div class="highlight"><pre tabindex="0" class="chroma"><code class="language-fallback" data-lang="fallback"><span class="line"><span class="cl">(org +roam2) </span></span></code></pre></div>
<p>&hellip; and then run <code>doom sync</code>.</p>
<p>You should add a <code>roam</code> subdir to your standard org files location or it will complain when you try to use it.</p>
<p>You can instantiate a new node with <code>spc n r i</code> (&rsquo;n&rsquo;otes, &lsquo;r&rsquo;oam, &lsquo;i&rsquo;nsert)</p>
<p>That gets you a roam buffer and you can start typing. As with most transient Emacs buffers, <code>C-c</code> will save and exit.</p>
<p>If you want to link to a separate note, you can start typing its name in the body of the current note and get an autocomplete list.</p>
<p>If you link to a note from another note, Roam takes care of adding a backlink at the bottom of the target note.</p>
<p>As with all things Emacs, there are org-roam configs you can go find on the street and stick in your mouth. As with all things Emacs, I didn&rsquo;t describe it that way because I thought that would make such an approach attractive to you. I want you to be repulsed by that approach because it is unclean. One of the advantages of Doom Emacs (or Spacemacs, or Prelude) is that if they include a package, they probably include some basic configuration, so you can kick the tires then start layering on capabilities.</p>
<p>Anyhow, in its basic Doom Emacs config, org-roam is unremarkable. If you want a zettel and don&rsquo;t want Emacs, go get Obsidian or one of its competitors. I&rsquo;m going to stick with it for a while. As I mentioned <a href="/posts/2023-03-21-daily-notes-for-2023-03-21/">yesterday</a>, I like org-mode&rsquo;s intertwingling of tasks/actions/todos and prose, so it suits me.</p>
<h3 id="the-pleasures-of-a-straight-razor-competently-wielded">The pleasures of a straight razor competently wielded</h3>
<p>A brief history of me and professional grooming:</p>
<ul>
<li>My grandmother paid for my first stylist haircut when I was in 7th grade. I had no idea how to maintain it.</li>
<li>I spent a few years just telling barbers to take it all off.</li>
<li>The army taught me the pleasures of walking in, paying your $5, and getting a high-and-tight. Once I&rsquo;d been in a few years, I&rsquo;d modify the request to say &ldquo;leave a little up top.&rdquo;</li>
<li>Over the past 20 years I developed an appreciation for Great Clips because they store your preferences and last cut in the computer under your phone number.</li>
</ul>
<p>Then last year I walked into a barber shop near the office because things were dire and I had a few minutes. The barber handled the basic cut, then offered to do some detail work with a straight razor since he had time. That part was amazing, and it made my day.</p>
<p>I started going back, partially because it was a great first experience and partly because the barber was utterly disinterested in small talk. Just enough to establish we spoke a common tongue, then nothing except the occasional request for a decision.  We did enter into an extended dialog about my beard made up of very sharp exchanges in the ensuing months. He was in favor of taking more of it off, and I would say &ldquo;no, I&rsquo;m not there yet, please just do what you can with it.&rdquo; He&rsquo;d mutter and then cluck when he got to the part where it began to curl at the bottom. &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t do anything with this &hellip; you&rsquo;re sure you&rsquo;re okay?&rdquo;</p>
<p>Then last week I had a video conference and was wearing a shirt with a collar and a jacket and I realized I couldn&rsquo;t see my collar under my beard. I couldn&rsquo;t really see my mouth, either.</p>
<p>I recently read about a study that suggested people with beards will ultimately be perceived as more trustworthy and accessible <em>once they are given an opportunity to smile</em>. Until that point, the unbearded have all the social advantages. So I decided it might be best to make my mouth observable. COVID and masking did reveal me to be a proficient eyebrow flasher, but I don&rsquo;t think you can completely rely on that.</p>
<p>So I booked time with my barber and left out the haircut (I&rsquo;m good for a few more weeks) but did add the razor true-up.</p>
<p>When I sat down he resignedly asked &ldquo;the usual, just fix the scruff?&rdquo; and I said &ldquo;no, I&rsquo;d like to get some of that length and volume out of there.&rdquo; He started to nod vigorously, and we entered into an extended negotiation measured in finger widths (&ldquo;okay, but top of finger or bottom?&rdquo;) and ultimately settled on something that would both reveal my mouth and also let you see my neck and/or collar.</p>
<p>Then it was just closing my eyes and enjoying the hot towel, thick lather, and precision work of a sharp straight razor, including temples and neck.</p>
<p>Restorative.</p>
<p>I go all the way across town &ndash; the barber moved from near the office to even further west &ndash; but it&rsquo;s worth the train ride once a month to have a good barber.</p>
<h3 id="movie-decline-of-western-civilization">Movie: Decline of Western Civilization</h3>
<p>I rewatched Penelope Spheeris&rsquo; <em>Decline of Western Civilization</em> for the umpteenth time. X is one of my top 5 favorite bands of all time, so I love everything with them in it, even if John Doe&rsquo;s trolling over &ldquo;Johnny Hit and Run Pauline&rdquo; makes me cringer harde with every viewing.  The people around the periphery are great, too, including Club 88&rsquo;s owner, who is determined to greet the whole freak show playing out in his venue with a certain patient equanimity I hope I can equal as the world moves on around me. And I&rsquo;m grimly fascinated with Fear, and Lee Ving in particular, and his theatrical hate.</p>
<p>Punk was the first real subgenre I embraced. I was up at 2 in the morning in 10th grade, working on a paper for my journalism class, when the college radio station I&rsquo;d been listening to jazz on hours earlier suddenly crackled back to life from its post-midnight-signoff hiss because someone had snuck into the studio and announced the first (and possibly last) installment of &ldquo;Goshen College&rsquo;s Guts Radio.&rdquo;</p>
<p>Then they peeled my skull back with Fear, Black Flag, Dead Kennedys, and stuff I never heard again.</p>
<p>I mentioned it to the stoner who sat in front of me in American History and he came back the next day with the Dead Boys&rsquo; <em>Young, Loud and Snotty</em> on one side of a cassette tape, and a hastily assembled tour of more vintage punk on the other.</p>
<p>Anyhow, <em>Decline</em>: X are the odd ones out there. A punk act, yes, but with the seeds of their eventual trajectory present if you look for them. The case has been made that they were a case of tragic mistiming and I think it might be true: There they were at the height of their <em>energy</em> in 1980, but the <em>sensibility</em> they anticipated was years away from the eventual saturation it achieved with vintage scavengers and billy boys. My affection for X is undying: They were my bridge from a sullen, resentful anger toward all the normal people to a belief that maybe <em>I</em> was one of the decent people, too.</p>
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